Friday, September 27, 2013

Gender stereotypes

it always bothers me when people compare male's and female's because usually the male has the upper hand and is usually made out to be the better person when really there the cause of any type of drama that transpires. like a women will stick with a guy through so much take care of him, cater to him, put up with him even when she isn't happy, and leave him when he cheats with other women, and he will still be "the man". Where as a man will stick around, treat a girl like she's an option, and then as soon as she makes one mistake, like show some time to someone else he leaves her, and she's labeled a "hoe" and all types of other disrespectful things. I dont understand why things are different just because the gender changes, the stipulations should apply to everyone no matter the circumstances.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Love.

does real love exist? is there really someone for everyone? most people when you ask them about love, they'll tell you that you'll just know you'll feel it, but most of the time when you think it's love its just lust, youll be infatuated with the person for some time but eventually the feelings will change, you'll lose interest or whatever the person is offering might not interest you anymore. That can't be love because love is forever right? at least that's what people who get married think, but divorce rates say otherwise now a days so who knows. Im beginning to think its just a figment of our imagination, like the only people who will tell you they love you and actually mean it will be family members, and half the time not even them. I think instead of people telling each other "I love you" they should just say "I lust you" so that way no one get's their hopes up and believes that theres something there when in reality it probably isn't. Excuse my late afternoon ventation i just needed to clear my mind :)

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

i've always wondered why people in relationships cheat, and when they do cheat try to have a legitmate excuse as to why they did it. Like they'll be in the relationship but as soon as something happens that they're not cool or comfortable with, they go outside of the relationship & deal with someone else, like the excuse they use will some how change the fact or make it a little less bearable. At the end of the day if your're not comfortable then you can 1) let the other person know that your unhappy or 2) if it's that bad you can leave the situation all together, cheating to me is never justifiable. I do believe in 2nd chances but something like that to me is just not something you can just brush off or kick under the rug.

Friday, September 6, 2013

Embrace My individuality.

I was often under the impression that we lived in new times, the 20th century the "creative period" but I'm often discouraged by the looks and words of those that are so called so open to originality. As soon as someone See's that you're doing something different, and staying in your own lane the judgement begins. 'You're stuck up", "You think you're better than everyone else" but why can't you just be yourself? many people are to worried about trying to be different, instead of just doing it. I used to care and let other people's opinions affect how i dress and act, but once I got in the mind set of as long as I like it, no one Else's opinion matters, & once I started worrying about myself and nobody else i realized how easy life really is. :)